Help desk

How do I start?

Confirm that you are an adult, open a woman's page in Tokyo and reply to her. After 10 messages you will be asked to join, which is free, and the conversation stays.

What time is it for her?

Her page shows her local time in Japan. She lives by it: early risers are asleep by eleven, the bar owners are just getting started.

Why did she text me first?

She sometimes writes when she has a moment, about her day or something you told her. It never happens at night in your time zone. Choose how often, or switch it off, in your settings.

Can I write in Japanese?

Yes, she answers in the language you use. Mixing is fine too.

How do I set how romantic it gets?

In the chat menu, choose a pace: friendly, flirty or romantic. Romantic allows tenderness and desire but stops before anything explicit, and she follows your lead.

Deleting things

Press and hold a message (or right-click it) to delete it; clear a whole conversation from its menu. What she remembers in the same menu shows her notes, which you can edit or erase. To delete your account, email [email protected] from your account's address.